His Selkie patiently watches for 6 long years
the mind of her love slip away
Tending carefully to the empty oyster shell
She feeds him spooning slowly
vegetables have long since left the menu
Now rejected in fruitlessly decay the daily apple
finally failing to keep the doctor away
Chocolate and crust less marmalade sandwiches
provide no indulgent sustenance
Dementia removing the possibility of chewing
increasing the
possibility of choking
Nutrition sucked is a straw not to be clutched at
a feeble buoyancy aid rejected by this Triton
A man of the sea A man of the Sun
withdrawn from both life forces
She has stopped reading Masefield
for he knows he will not go down to the sea again
Silver spooning memories back into his soul
Luxury from a small ocean blue tub
pearlescent cool creamy cream
The final vanilla pleasure
Sue Kent
In memory of my father
* Selkies are said to live as seals in the sea but shed
their skin to become human on land, I am affected by the drug Thalidomide and have seal like upper limbs. Feeding my father was not easy.
* Joe's Ice cream is a brand of ice cream famous in Wales and when my father moved from England it was his biggest pleasure.
Dementia often ends self starvation, or so it seems in my experience.
Let us hope the Government finally sees the relevance to putting dementia higher on the research finance agenda.
No enough in the statement made today
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-25318194 If you need further information or help visit http://www.alzheimers.org.uk/
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